Love, Lust, Sex & the Artist

Curiosity is the lust of the mind
Happy Valentine’s, Mixed Media – Rick Santiago 2024

The Difference between Sex and Art is a very very thin line

As young artist, a well done piece from start to finish was as gratifying as incredible sex. Maybe more so, since my personal satisfaction and rewards only mattered. Every piece was a precious creation from my imagination. Every piece needed to find its place. I knew which pieces were strong and would have no problems. While others were not as pleasing and would need to shine a little brighter to find that place.

As I grew better at my craft, the thrill, the romance and the satisfaction became less and less intense, like bright sunshine fading at dusk. Pieces became predictable, not out of sameness but because of personal growth as an artist and experience. Being better and knowing better made projects almost routine.

I found this to be the reason my work morphed, changed and moved on so much over the years. At times the change could easily be described as conflicting. Sometimes going full circle and returning to a previous style. Sometimes never revisiting that cycle again. I caught myself continually searching for that new high, new thrill and challenge.

There was always a constant effort to find my own personal dopamine, I was addicted. Today, I still search, I still seek out the pleasure and the satisfaction of a new challenge. Whether it ends in success or failure, it is this new challenge that keeps me moving forward with anticipation.

Favorite Quotes

  • “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” – Oscar Wilde
  • “All art is erotic.” – Gustav Klimt
  • “Sex: the thing that takes up the least amount of time and causes the most amount of trouble.” — John Barrymore
  • “Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.” — Hunter S. Thompson
  • “An intellectual is a person who’s found one thing that’s more interesting than sex.” – Aldous Huxley
  • “Love without Lust is simply dessert.”
  • “Sex and art are the same thing.” Picasso
  • “Sex is more exciting on the screen and between the pages than between the sheets.” – Andy Warhol
  • “A woman is the most powerful drug in the world”
  • “The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it.” – Woody Allen
  • “To me, sex is power. It’s empowering when you do it because you want to do it.” – Rihanna
  • “Art is like masturbation. It is selfish and introverted and done for you and you alone. Design is like sex. There is someone else involved, their needs are just as important as your own, and if everything goes right, both parties are happy in the end.” – Colin Wright
  • “A man who asks questions, explores, and adjusts is more attractive than a man who believes he knows everything. Curiosity demonstrates humility and makes her feel like an adventure rather than an obligation”. – unknown

Curiosity is the lust of the mind

“Your imagination is a powerful tool for sexual pleasure, allowing you to create your own stories and understand what turns you on.” – Gina Gutierrez

Many psychological theories and artists themselves note a distinct crossover between sexual drive and creative drive.

Both sexual intimacy and deep artistic creation require a sense of “attunement” – losing oneself entirely in the present moment to manifest something raw and vulnerable. – Zesty Life

Psychological studies have historically noted that highly creative individuals often possess personality traits like charisma, high emotional sensitivity, and openness to experience, which frequently correlate with active, bohemian, or non-traditional sex lives. – Deviantart

In Western art traditions (from the Renaissance through the 19th century), the “female nude” became a highly sanitized, conventionalized way for male artists to present the female form as an object of desire for male spectators, often masking it under the guise of mythology. – Sexuality in Art

Artists from marginalized communities and female painters are actively rewriting how the body is viewed. For example, Jenna Gribbon paints raw, intimate portraits from her own perspective to flip the script on how queer women are perceived. – CAI magazine

Here are a few pieces and photographs…

Feel free to message Rick Santiago at 443-390-6599 or theunartist@outlook.com

Golf 2025

Married with children
Married with Children, don’t know if this person plays golf

My Golf Ball for 2025!

Starting in 2023 I decided not to play ANY golf ball over $30/dz. My criteria, it had to have a urethane cover, 3 pc construction, 85+ compression and NOT have 318 dimples. Most important, I had to feel comfortable with short game around the green and some positive putting results.

Golf balls I’ve played extensively includes the original Srixon Z-Star XV. The Srixon I played was a 4pc with a urethane cover at @100 Compression, it was probably the longest golf ball off the tee I’ve ever played. Worked well from tee to green but I could never really putt with the ball. Last couple years, the Srixon went from a 4pc to 3pc construction and that’s when I decided to not play it anymore. No matter what Srixon claimed, it just wasn’t for me.

Other golf balls I’ve played includes, Vice Pro, Vice Pro Plus, Kirkland V3, Bridgestone e12 Contact and Taylomade Tour Response.

In the fall of 2023, I started looking at different golf balls, by end of year it came down to the Kirkland V3 (2023-24) and Oncore Golf Elixr (2022). Chose the Oncore Elixr due to it’s performance in windy conditions, rock solid through the wind. Oncore Elixr is a 3pc construction, with a urethane cover and @85 compression. I could really putt with this, I probably at least doubled my birdie count during league play! Off the tee it was surprisingly long, approach shots did not roll out and around the greens superb control. But by mid season, it was harder to find, in the Fall it was no longer available through Oncore website. (as of mid March 2025 the Elixr was finally available again) I moved on…

Legato LTX 3085 as found on Amazon

Legato 2025

Never heard of Legato but started to read others opinions about this odd golf ball and decided to give them a try starting in December 2024. The Legato is a urethane covered, 3pc, 85+/- compression with 350 dimples, pretty much my baseline for a golfball. Can be found on Amazon at retail for $29/dozen, often on sale for $25 and currently (March 28, 2025) $18.99/dozen.

I have not yet played this ball in warm temps but have played the Legato exclusively for 12+ plus rounds weather permitting. I’ve found driver distance to be the same as most any other urethane covered ball I’ve played, in other words there’s no distance loss or gain. Irons are a bit different, I feel that the Legato maybe touch longer. Especially noticeable from 8 iron through gap wedge. Some have opined that it launches lower than other golf balls, for me, I did not notice differences in launch pattern throughout the bag. I’ve never had problems holding greens and this is true with the Legato. When struck solid this ball feels great and moves through even windy conditions without issues. With chipping and putting I have no complaints. Durabilty is up there with the best, I have not found one cover cut on any shots. The ball feels “heavy and firm” throughout the bag, not a springy nor clicky.

For 2025 golf season, I will use the Legato during league play. I just don’t think playing a Legato will cost me any strokes just like I don’t think a Titleist, Taylormade, Bridgestone or Srixon will save me any strokes. Currently playing to a 6 handicap in 2025.

Feel free to message Rick Santiago at 443-390-6599